Some men think of women as accessories. If you're not the watch that goes with that  particular suit or outfit or even the occasion they just pick another one. They change women like they change their accessories to suit their outfit. 

Sometimes, they will lose you before realizing that you're the Classic Piece that goes with everything and fits into every occasion of their life, this happens when you make yourself invaluable. You must understand that you are God's Masterpiece not an accessory and shouldn't be treated as one.

Unfortunately, a lot of women have chosen to be treated as accessories, they have made it easy for men to use them how they want. Seriously, why will a lady keep having sex with a guy she knows will never want to marry her or isn't ready to marry her? Why are some young girls selling themselves to men old enough to be their grandfather and father for money? These are questions that baffle me. 

Why not ask yourself this, 'If am good enough for him for sex, why not marriage'? It means he's using you and you have allowed yourself to be used. Also ask yourself, why would a man old enough to be my grandfather desire to be having sex with me? He is just ruining your life dear, most of them are occultic and sleeping with you is not ordinary at all, your destiny is being exchanged for their wealth and longevity. That's why a lot of young girls are dying mysteriously. Why do you keep giving something tangible for intangible things?

As a Lady, you must understand that the power to do or not to do lies mostly in your hands. You can keep yourself for the right man till your wedding night.

My dear, wake up and stop being used! Your body is God's temple not an accessory. Please ladies, I will crave your indulgence to please keep yourself for that wonderful man that will treat you with much love, respect and understanding for the rest of his and your life. 

You are not a commodity that can be purchased with money nor is your worth determined by money. You are God's beautiful handiwork made uniquely for His glory. You are a priceless and precious jewel. No amount of money can buy you nor can any amount equate your worth. 

God commands us to flee from sexual immorality and you must understand that God's commandments are only for our own good,  He loves us and wants the best for us. Please ladies, keep yourselves! 

More lessons from the Bible: Luke 1:34 Mary said to the angel, "But how? I've never slept with a man." 

This was Mary's response to the angel. At the time Mary said this, she was already espoused to Joseph. What does this tell you? Being engaged does not qualify you to start sleeping with each other. You are not yet husband and wife until you are husband and wife by marriage. It's unfortunate that people boldly commit fornication, get pregnant and boldly announce that they are pregnant while they are not yet married.

Joseph on the other hand also kept himself, the Bible never mentioned that he attempted to sleep with Mary while they courted. 

Ladies, learn from Mary. 

Men, learn from Joseph.

Being engaged and in love is not a sin, but what you do within the confinement of engagement is what could be sin. 

Peaceable Peace Cares Always 

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Unknown said…
Nice one, I pray that ladies will read this with a better understanding....
Unknown said…
Nice one, I pray that ladies will read this with a better understanding....
Peaceable Peace said…
That's equally my prayer dear. Thanks
Divinitz said…
It all boils down to training and retraining oneself as a lady. When a lady knows who she is, she shouldn't settle for less. .
Peaceable Peace said…
Wow! Very on point Divinitz. May the eyes of their understanding be enlightened to know who they are.
Peaceable Peace said…
I want to throw more light on Divinitz point. Honestly, most ladies are to be blamed for getting treated the way some men treat them. They act as accessories and that's why they are treated as such. If you know who you are and know your worth, you will equally know how to carry yourself. Lacking understanding of who you are, makes you present yourself as what you are not because you don't know what you are.

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