The 3 Kinds of Men - a must read for Single Ladies

By Peace Wobo
Hello Single Ladies! I personally welcome you to this wonderful episode. Believe me, it is mind blowing as well  as educating, very correct and based on the Scriptures as well. I watched this Heart2Heart series titled True Love Relationship Conference shared on Winifred Chinyere Ezeani's Facebook wall. It was awesome . I don't know the name of the man that took this section but what he said really blessed and inspired me and am sure you wouldn't regret it either.

There are 3 kinds of Men.

The first kind of man is a Hunter.

The hunter is a man who looks for something that is thriving, something that is doing well, something that is successful, then he will take it. The only problem that hunters have with their capture is that they are intimidated by their capture. A hunter man is the one that is inspired by successful women, then he will capture her heart and kill her dream, he will kill her beauty because he is intimidated. That lipstick that caught his eyes, he is believing that that same lipstick will catch somebody's eyes, so he will tell her no more lipstick. So, when you see the wife of a hunter, she is an ex woman. She used to be a dreamer, she used to be successful, she used to have a dream of doing Masters but everything is finished because a hunter has caught her and he uses her carcass for his boast.

The second kind of man is a Scavenger.

A scavenger as you know is like a vulture. He eats dead things, dying things. A scavenger man is one who looks for a woman who have no self esteem or low self-esteem. Somebody who needs to be loved to become a human being. Who needs money, who needs help. A Scavenger man likes weak people. That's why Scavenger lecturers like girls that fail. A scavenger manager likes people that don't meet their target so that you have to beg. That is why most scavenger husbands like house helps because they feel like the girl needs a job, so even as beautiful as their wife can be because of that Scavenger in them, it's the weak one they want to prey on.

The third kind of man is a Gardener.

A gardener is the man who receives his wife and he sees her as a seed with great potential to become.  What a husbandman or a gardener does is to plant his wife in his heart and in his home then he waters her, he exposes her to the light - education, information, vision and sometimes he would have to prone her (No you can't do that) because he wants her to blossom not because he wants to overpower her. Therefore, whenever you see a husbandman, his wife will be blossoming, she looks finer than she used to be. Before she wasn't talking about business now she is running a business, before she has one branch now she is running multiple branches because the gardener is bringing out the potential in her. Now the man that God said, it is not good to be alone was a Gardener. Any man that is not proud of his wife, is not that woman that has a problem it is the man because what the gardener is saying is am not proud of my garden because I haven't done what am supposed to do. It is your job to make your wife the woman that you will be proud of, that is your job.

You can also read: The Man

Now, how can a single lady know if her suitor is a gardener? It is very simple.

A man that cannot love God passionately cannot love his wife passionately. If he is not a worshipper he cannot be a lover.

So men, cast yourself free in worship because the woman that is your own, it is most likely in worship that she will know that you are truly a lover.